Warning: 18Plus
I was chatting to a UK friend of mine the other day and this subject came up. He told me that in the clubs in London, people often have sex right there in the dark corners or in the bathrooms. This is what he said. Whaaaat! I haven't seen this in all my long gone partying days in Nairobi, and we partied a lot!! I don't know what it's like now, maybe some of my younger, still partying friends can enlighten me?
My late brother was the DJ at what was then known as "Visions" and there were a couple of burly bouncers who took care of any over enthusiastic shows of affection before they got out of hand. I DO remember seeing young couples snogging in the corner at the famous Carnivore but thankfully nothing more. Maybe this was going on but I didn't see this as I was always busy dancing my night away. There were always prostitutes there trying to hook up with "clients" so they could leave and go do it in some seedy hotel room or quickies in the cars or whatever.
The question is this: when we see a woman selling her body for money then we can define her as a prostitute, but what do we call the women who just feel like getting some and go trawling in clubs for it? Maybe she's in between boyfriends, or divorced or whatever so she sees nothing wrong in behaving like many men do. If she needs it, she goes out and she gets it, without getting paid, or paying anyone. What is she called? Can she be termed a whore if money doesn't change hands? Some people may even think she has a right to fulfill her needs as she sees fit. Is it not just a basic need like eating and sleeping? But on the other hand, aren't we women emotional creatures? And is the driving force really just a physiological need for sex or an inner desire to feel loved and wanted? Sometimes a woman (or a man) just needs to be held. Maybe this is the closest thing to a cuddle they can get? I do feel sorry for these women and I am not one to judge, that is Allah's Supreme right. All I know is loneliness is a terrible thing and I pray that we never get desperate enough to allow our bodies to be used just to get some short lived male attention.
By the way, I have a bone to pick with some of you men: C'mon! step up and pick up the slack, there are so many good women waiting for you, and why do you always prefer bitches anyways? That's another post for another day once I've read THIS book by Sherry Argov....
I was chatting to a UK friend of mine the other day and this subject came up. He told me that in the clubs in London, people often have sex right there in the dark corners or in the bathrooms. This is what he said. Whaaaat! I haven't seen this in all my long gone partying days in Nairobi, and we partied a lot!! I don't know what it's like now, maybe some of my younger, still partying friends can enlighten me?
My late brother was the DJ at what was then known as "Visions" and there were a couple of burly bouncers who took care of any over enthusiastic shows of affection before they got out of hand. I DO remember seeing young couples snogging in the corner at the famous Carnivore but thankfully nothing more. Maybe this was going on but I didn't see this as I was always busy dancing my night away. There were always prostitutes there trying to hook up with "clients" so they could leave and go do it in some seedy hotel room or quickies in the cars or whatever.
The question is this: when we see a woman selling her body for money then we can define her as a prostitute, but what do we call the women who just feel like getting some and go trawling in clubs for it? Maybe she's in between boyfriends, or divorced or whatever so she sees nothing wrong in behaving like many men do. If she needs it, she goes out and she gets it, without getting paid, or paying anyone. What is she called? Can she be termed a whore if money doesn't change hands? Some people may even think she has a right to fulfill her needs as she sees fit. Is it not just a basic need like eating and sleeping? But on the other hand, aren't we women emotional creatures? And is the driving force really just a physiological need for sex or an inner desire to feel loved and wanted? Sometimes a woman (or a man) just needs to be held. Maybe this is the closest thing to a cuddle they can get? I do feel sorry for these women and I am not one to judge, that is Allah's Supreme right. All I know is loneliness is a terrible thing and I pray that we never get desperate enough to allow our bodies to be used just to get some short lived male attention.
By the way, I have a bone to pick with some of you men: C'mon! step up and pick up the slack, there are so many good women waiting for you, and why do you always prefer bitches anyways? That's another post for another day once I've read THIS book by Sherry Argov....
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